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Adam's avatar

I loved the essay.

As an undergrad I had David Halperin for a gay theory seminar and later his infamous “how to be gay” class. I was such a little snot. I wrote a paper arguing that gay history was misguided and one arguing that gay culture doesn’t exist. I scandalized Halperin’s grad student TA when I told him I didn’t think gay people were “born that way”—that same-sex desire was more likely an individualized, idiosyncratic combination of genetic predispositions, psychology, and life experience. (I got As in the classes.)

All these years later, nothing I’ve lived has changed my mind. The essay makes an elegant and well argued case for preserving what it calls “the gay world”. But I suspect it underestimates how many gay people are perfectly content with what it dismisses as “assimilation.” I’m married (26 years together), a father, embedded in Detroit’s social institutions. Being gay is just a fact about us, not the organizing principle of our lives. If others want to maintain specifically gay cultural institutions and literary traditions, more power to them. But for many of us, the Mattachine Society had it exactly right: the goal was never separate culture but for gayness to become incidental and as unremarkable as being left-handed.

Gary Kornblau's avatar

Blake, such a fabulous little history of often bastardized parts of our cultural tradition. You are a true gay parrhesiast (before which false parrhesiasts should quake). And funny as f*ck.

Arendt as Mother of Gays. Wow.

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